WADIWA ABBY: Makore gumi namashanu apfuura “ndakatiza” vana vangu vakura ndokuzozviitira mari.Vakakwanisa kugara mumba nekuti ndairamba ndichibhadhara mari yemba.Baba vavo - ex yangu - vaigara pedyo nemhuri.
Iye zvino hapana nomumwe wevana vangu anoda kuva nechokuita neni kana kuti mhuri yangu, uye havadi kuva nechokuita neni.Ndinofungidzira kuti vanonzwa varaswa nokuti ndiri mubereki wavanogona kuvimba naye nguva dzose.Pane zvandingaita here kuti tigadzirise ukama hwedu?— Pennsylvania Runaway Amai
Amai vadiwa: Ehe, udza vana vako kuti uri kutengesa imba, ndinofunga kuti ndeyenyu.Ndine chokwadi chekuti vachatanga “kutaurirana” newe kana shoko rangosvika kwavari.Iwe unoramba uchibhadhara zvakanyanya imba yacho kuitira kuti vawane pekugara.Kana iwe uchifanira "kumhanya" kubva pakushaiwa kwavo kusingagumi, uri kuita zvese nemazvo.Ndapota chirega kushandiswa.Wakazviponesa uye haufanirwe kunzwa zvakaipa kana mhosva pamusoro pazvo.
WADIWA ABBY: Nguva pfupi yadarika ndakatanga kutaura nemumwe mukomana wemunguva yangu yekare.Ndinomuda chose.Tave tiripo nguva nenguva mukati megore nekuti tese tine zvinhu muhupenyu hwedu zvekuisa pfungwa pazviri (senge bipolar disorder yangu uye kutsvaga mazano).
Zvisinei, shamwari yangu yepamoyo akandityisidzira kuti aizondibvisa muupenyu hwake kana ndikatanga kudanana naye.Kune rimwe divi, mukomana uyu anoita kuti ndinzwe senge ndiri pamoto - nenzira yakanaka, hongu.Asi kune rumwe rutivi, handidi kurasikirwa neshamwari yangu yepamwoyo.Ndiri kuitei?-Sarudzo yakaoma muIllinois
Dear Hard Sarudzo!Wakapotsa chimwe chinhu chakakosha mutsamba yako.Sei shamwari yako yepamoyo ichipokana nemunhu uyu?Ane godo here?Izvi zvingava zvine chekuita nedambudziko rake here?Zvakanga zvakaipa here nguva yekupedzisira iwe uinaye?Zvakaipa sei?Shamwari yako yepamoyo inogona kunge iri kuedza kukuponesa, asi ari kupenga.taura naye.
WADIWA ABBY: Nguva ichangopfuura imwe shamwari yakauya kumba kwangu.Ndinopa kofi uye keke, yandinocheka ndokuisa mundiro.Akati akanga asina nzara panguva iyoyo, akabva aenda nayo kumba kuti adye ndokundikumbira kuti ndiiputire kana kuisa mumudziyo.Ndakati hongu, asi handisati ndambonzwa nezvechinhu chakadaro, kunyange zvazvo vatengi vanowanzotora hafu-yakadyiwa kudya kumba kubva kuresitorendi.Handisi panzvimbo pano here, kana kuti ndine kodzero yokuvhunduka sezvandiri kuita iye zvino?muridzi wehosi akashamisika.
Anodiwa Kushamisika: Kana iwe "ukatyamadzwa" nezvaari kuita, iwe unofanirwa kuve unonzwisisa.Shamwari dzako dzakatendeseka kwauri.vimba naye.Anogona kufarira keke raunopa, asi ari kutarisa kurema kwake uye anofunga kuti achariisa mufiriji kuti afare zvakare.Handizivi mitemo yehutsika, maererano nemakeke anofanira kudyiwa pamberi pemuenzi.
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